Texts to send someone who ghosted you

If you haven’t been getting any calls or texts from the person you’ve been craving to hear from, you’re ghosted. Not having heard from your crush for days or even weeks is a clear sign that they want to avoid you, and so, they’re whole-heartedly alright with ghosting you.

Ghosting not only instils a feeling of doubt and confusion but also leads the person to think that they are not worthy of anybody’s time or attention. At a time when communication is prioritised as the most important relationship aspect, not tending to it is pure failure and foolishness. By doing this, you’re missing out on any chances of closure that might help you move on from this person. Ghosting is a selfish act a person can do, to avoid confrontations and keep the other person in the dark. And so, with a strong heart and mind, you need to send them one last text to end it all. Here are some texts you can send someone who ghosted you.

Sense of maturity - “Both of us are adults in this relationship. But you clearly aren’t, so don’t turn up again. Have a good life.”

Honesty - “It would have been nice if you could have been honest about your feelings. You didn’t need to ghost me at all. I would’ve left anyway.”

Losing interest - “You haven’t replied to me for so long that at this point, I’m completely over you. Good luck ghosting someone else.”

Realisation - “I have now come to realise that what you feel for me is nothing. There’s no point in me continuing to text you when all you’re doing is ghosting me.”

Same page - “We are not on the same page regarding relationships especially since you’ve been ghosting me. Good luck with your relationships later down the road.”

Implications - “Was it something I did or said that caused you to ghost me ridiculously. But it doesn’t matter anymore. It’s all in the past.”

Hopes - “I was hopeful that you and I could have a better relationship and life together in the future. Clearly, I was wrong. Goodbye.”

Disrespect - “This was a major disrespect to me. The least you could have done was to communicate and tell me that we aren’t working anymore. Ghosting is never the solution.”

It’s no surprise - “I’m not surprised by your actions. Turns out, you were exactly what I thought of you. A selfish prick!”

Last resort - “ if you’re ghosting me now, so be it. I’m blocking you now.”